LONELINESS

People get into relationships for all types of reasons. They fall in love. They lust for a person and want to be near them. They are homeless; hobosexuality. Or they don’t want to be alone. That last one is the most dangerous. And I have a saying that I repeat to myself to keep me on point. “Don’t let loneliness and desperation get you into to a situation you can’t get out of.” Hard stop.

Most times, unless we are dealing with a narcissist who is able really hide who they are, we see the warning signals and we ignore them. #BecauseLonely At the end of the day, we need to be comfortable enough with ourselves to know that being alone doesn’t equate to loneliness. We have to be confident and secure and make sure not to take less than what we deserve. From anyone.

COVID Chronicals: Information I Found

I watched Dr. Peter Doshi of MIT tell the Senate that The Webster’s definition of vaccine was updated in 2021 to include MrNA. He brought up some interesting questions about calling the COVID vaccine a vaccine if you have to keep getting boosters.

I also read an old article, pre-COVID-vaccines, that acknowledged many doctors’ hesitancy about a vaccine that didn’t have enough time to actually finish a trial.

Please read, watch and share.

Censorship Will Bite Us In The 🍑

As you sit and watch the events and hear them calling Black people paranoid and White people Trumpers if they don’t want to take the Jab, look around. You’ll notice your TV commercials, your news and your social media feed all look the same. “GET VACCINATED is all over the place. This is by design. The whistle blower who talks about Pfizer improprieties, or the doctor who discusses natural immunity will not likely be seen in your feed or in the news. The world cannot see us and we cannot see the world because the social media companies are in bed with the government. (This is not a theory. Do some research on Facebook and Twitter… And others) And there is an an absolute government agenda. GET VACCINATED.

When you accepted the censorship of Trump, you accepted the censorship of us all. We need information on what they will force into our bodies. Into our babies’ bodies. Information is being blocked. If we allow it, this will not stop. When the government controls information flow, we are not free.

Women Would Not Date Men If They Didn’t Have Any Money

Someone shared this hysterical post, from a social media platform that I’m boycotting so it shall not be named, about men complaining about women not dating men if the man doesn’t have any money. I thought the post was going to go in a totally different direction. But what it said was basically “of course they don’t because women don’t want to raise any kids or any more right now. They aren’t ready for kids.” 😂😂😂

But I thought the post was going to go in a totally different direction. Because of course women date men who don’t have any money. This is America and most of us, including men, are trying to make ends meet. The last time I checked, men don’t have a problem finding a girlfriend, a wife or a date for that matter. So then what is it? 🤔

What these men really mean is that “Women I actually want to date will not date me because I don’t have any money.” What’s wrong with the women on their financial level? None of them are good enough for them? I know plenty of women that are above their man’s pay grade. So what’s it about?

They want a trophy wife. One that society deems beautiful. One they can brag about. When really, they already had/have that in the women that were willing to give them a chance. I really am starting to think that these men are always looking for something better. Even when they “settle down.” These men are never really happy because they have this idea of what a wife should be.

They say women are stuck in fairy tale land. But it’s the men who are stuck. Unrealistic expectations of their employed wives or girlfriends who most times will be employed wives and mothers. Meh. I don’t know. Just thinking “out loud.”

“Best Music Videos List: Ranking Greatest Music Videos of All Time – Rolling Stone” GARBAGE

Rolling Stone released their list of the greatest music videos of all time but excluded Michael Jackson’s Thriller but… included another one of his videos? I don’t even know which one it was. I didn’t go further into the article. Because the fact that you must state that the video isn’t on the list means you know you did wrong.

The article states that “all of these picks are perfect examples of how pairing sound and vision created an entire artistic vocabulary, gave us a handful of miniature-movie masterpieces, and changed how we heard (and saw) music.” Really? But no Thriller? Really? And then they gave Beyonce’s Formation the top nod. I love Bey. Formation was awesome. But they can keep that. It’s offensive. It’s like “Well it’s ok because we put another Black there.” No it’s not ok.

They are trying to erase Michael’s musical legacy and they aren’t even being slick about it. It’s disgusting. Rolling Stone messed this one up. I didn’t even link the article. They disserve no traffic.