Someone shared this hysterical post, from a social media platform that I’m boycotting so it shall not be named, about men complaining about women not dating men if the man doesn’t have any money. I thought the post was going to go in a totally different direction. But what it said was basically “of course they don’t because women don’t want to raise any kids or any more right now. They aren’t ready for kids.” 😂😂😂
But I thought the post was going to go in a totally different direction. Because of course women date men who don’t have any money. This is America and most of us, including men, are trying to make ends meet. The last time I checked, men don’t have a problem finding a girlfriend, a wife or a date for that matter. So then what is it? 🤔
What these men really mean is that “Women I actually want to date will not date me because I don’t have any money.” What’s wrong with the women on their financial level? None of them are good enough for them? I know plenty of women that are above their man’s pay grade. So what’s it about?
They want a trophy wife. One that society deems beautiful. One they can brag about. When really, they already had/have that in the women that were willing to give them a chance. I really am starting to think that these men are always looking for something better. Even when they “settle down.” These men are never really happy because they have this idea of what a wife should be.
They say women are stuck in fairy tale land. But it’s the men who are stuck. Unrealistic expectations of their employed wives or girlfriends who most times will be employed wives and mothers. Meh. I don’t know. Just thinking “out loud.”
ADRIAN MARIE JONES 